The Love Trap

We like to give lots of love to the ones we love. It feels wonderful.

And it is wonderful.

But not when you begin to lose the love for yourself.

Not when you give so much that you have nothing left for you.

Not when you wonder why you are now being treated so badly by that person you invested so much love into.

In a relationship it is easy to fall into this self-afflicted trap.

You want to please your partner.

You feel that being a nurturer, caregiver, gentle woman, helper, sweet heart will bring more love and connection in your life.

You want to give give give because you love love love love so much.

And all this is wonderful and to some extent necessary when coming together in a relationship.

However, over time, even months, too much giving and nurturing and being the gentle woman can begin to eat away at the care, love and attention you have left for yourself.

This is an old concept and belief that women easily fall into.

We as the feminine are conditioned to fall into it. We thrive and enjoy this falling, believing that this is what is going to make us happy.

I have fallen into that space over and over again in my personal relationships. I am a giver. I give, give, give and give more. I have little boundaries in this area because I thought that by giving so much love of me, I would receive more from the other.

I love deeply, I love others deeply, so deeply that I completely forget to love myself.

And then I have nothing left for me. I stand there like and empty shell wondering why the love I have given to others is not reciprocated.

And then, it gets worse, when I get into that place of forgetting about myself, my partner begins to forget about me too. They become needy, accusatory, mean, confusing, desperate. They become so reliant and expectant on the love I am giving them, they also forget how to love themselves.

What a trap.

If you, divine, beautiful woman, are in this belief trap, then please read more.

You as the feminine, are a loving, divine, being who is much more powerful and effective in your relationship and in the world when you focus on loving yourself.

Your partner requires you to love yourself, your family requires you to love yourself, the world requires you to love yourself, the universe requires you to love yourself.

When you focus on loving you, taking care of you, following your heart, listening to your deep intuition, taking action that makes you feel incredible and powerful, it will radiate outwards as love to everyone and everything.

The love you exemplify for YOU will glow like a beacon of light so strong, others will feel it from vast distances.

Your love will rise in you and the love will begin to rise in all your significant others with just as much power.

I am the one to control and make the decisions in my life.

I am the love that radiates divine, excellence of love to all around me.

I offer so much to myself in love that with ease love is transitioned to others giving them incredible power to begin to love themselves.

I unconditionally love myself first so I can be the strength in love that others can see and learn to grow within themselves.

I am Love.

I help women activate their Sexual Being by discovering their divine, beautiful Erotic Selves. I guide them to connect to their feminine energy and to use that energy to create an intimate life they so desire.

Book a call with me to discuss where you are and where you would like to be in your intimate life.